How to Keep a Conversation Going, pua, Bobby Rio, Conversation Steroids
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"How to Keep a Conversation Going
with a Woman and Spark Immediate
and Intense Attraction"
By Bobby Rio
©2011 Bobby Rio –all rights reserved
How to Keep A Conversation Going with a Woman in a Fun, Flirty, and Sexy Way
Let’s face it; talking to a beautiful woman does not come easily to too many of us. In
fact, so much of our energy and anxiety is deplored just gathering up the courage to
approach her, that by the time the conversation begins we’re burnt out and can’t think
of a damn thing to say.
Holding a fun and flirtatious conversation with a woman does not need to be difficult.
But I can tell you right now, that if you start talking to a woman, and quickly find
yourself asking her a lot of questions about her job, school, if she has pets, or any other
type of questions that even vaguely resemble stuff that would be on a job application-
you’re dead in the water.
So I’ve put together a list of nine ways to make sure that you’re having conversations
filled with fun and banter- and ultimately escalate you toward your goal of sleeping with
her.
9 Skills for Better Conversations with Women
1. Avoid asking too many questions… instead make statements
After breaking the ice with a woman, most guys will
immediately start bombarding her with questions. These
questions usually tend to be boring “get to know you”
questions… you know, the same sort of questions your
aunt will ask you at a family party.
Asking too many questions not only bores her, but it will
also prevent her from actually engaging in the
conversation. What usually happens is men will jump
from question to question, without ever having the sense
to expand upon a topic you can tell she loves to talk
about.
Try this instead:
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Any time you are talking to a woman and you ask her a question… follow up her answer
with a statement rather than simply moving on to the next question. This not only
shows that you are listening to her, but also shows that you can connect at a different
level. And will usually open up the conversation to move toward more fun or intimate
topics.
You: So do you have any pets?
Her: Yea, I actually have three of the cutest cats in the world.
You: Mmm…. So you are one of those women with cats, huh? (sly smile)
Her: Stop it.. haha… no I’m not one of those crazy cat women… I just love my cats.
You: They say people who like cats tend to me more independent than dog lovers….
As you can see, just by following up the question with a statement, you are able to
expand on the topic and bring a little fun and banter to the conversation.
In the Small Talk Tactics report I give more examples of what to say to girls.
2. Qualify her
Once a man senses any sort of rapport with a woman, he
immediately becomes scared shitless of breaking that rapport or
saying anything that will damage his chances of moving forward.
So he stays on “safe” topics. Unfortunately, this tends to work
counter-productive… and usually winds up boring a woman that
was previously interested.
Try this instead:
Once you sense that you’ve sparked a woman’s interest a little bit begin qualifying her
with questions or statements that place you in the role of “the selector.”
This means you will make a statement that may disqualify her as potential lover…
Let’s use the cat example from above to demonstrate:
You: So do you have any pets?
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Her: Yea, I have three of the cutest cats in the world.
You: mmmm… We would never get along. I’m a dog person, and what I’ve heard is that
dog and cat owners tend to have a really intense sexual connection… but disagree on
every other possible point.
As you can see, you took a “safe” topic like pets and were able to bring an element of
sexuality to the conversation. Not only that, but by making the statement “we would
never get along” you’re now placing the burden of approval seeking on her.
3. Use Cold Reads
As men, we love to talk about facts, events, and amusing surface level stories. While all
of these should make up a great deal of your conversations… they tend to limit you from
certain areas that really seem to ignite passion in a woman.
Women get their “fix” from talking about the mystical, or the deeper level. Women love
to delve into the emotional meaning behind the facts, events, or surface level stories.
If you never hint to a woman that you are capable of communicating on this different
wave length… you’re missing out on a great opportunity to separate yourself from other
men.
Try this instead:
Next time you’re talking to woman, try using a cold reading that will allow you to go
beneath the surface level, and get her to open up to some of her feelings.
A cold read is simply stating something you’ve noticed about her, and then making a
deeper observation about it.
Here is an example that you could use fairly soon into a conversation when she says
something about a previous date or guy she knew.
You: I can tell just by the way that you are talking there that you are the kind of girl who
goes on a lot of dates but has trouble finding someone you’re actually interested in.
Then when you find that person, you usually lose interest very quickly.
Her: Yea… that’s so true.
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Conversation Steroids Bonus Report #1
Conversation Steroids Bonus Report #1
Conversation Steroids Bonus Report #1
©2011 Bobby Rio –all rights reserved
all rights reserved
"How to Keep a Conversation Going
with a Woman and Spark Immediate
and Intense Attraction"
By Bobby Rio
©2011 Bobby Rio –all rights reserved
How to Keep A Conversation Going with a Woman in a Fun, Flirty, and Sexy Way
Let’s face it; talking to a beautiful woman does not come easily to too many of us. In
fact, so much of our energy and anxiety is deplored just gathering up the courage to
approach her, that by the time the conversation begins we’re burnt out and can’t think
of a damn thing to say.
Holding a fun and flirtatious conversation with a woman does not need to be difficult.
But I can tell you right now, that if you start talking to a woman, and quickly find
yourself asking her a lot of questions about her job, school, if she has pets, or any other
type of questions that even vaguely resemble stuff that would be on a job application-
you’re dead in the water.
So I’ve put together a list of nine ways to make sure that you’re having conversations
filled with fun and banter- and ultimately escalate you toward your goal of sleeping with
her.
9 Skills for Better Conversations with Women
1. Avoid asking too many questions… instead make statements
After breaking the ice with a woman, most guys will
immediately start bombarding her with questions. These
questions usually tend to be boring “get to know you”
questions… you know, the same sort of questions your
aunt will ask you at a family party.
Asking too many questions not only bores her, but it will
also prevent her from actually engaging in the
conversation. What usually happens is men will jump
from question to question, without ever having the sense
to expand upon a topic you can tell she loves to talk
about.
Try this instead:
©2011 Bobby Rio –all rights reserved
Any time you are talking to a woman and you ask her a question… follow up her answer
with a statement rather than simply moving on to the next question. This not only
shows that you are listening to her, but also shows that you can connect at a different
level. And will usually open up the conversation to move toward more fun or intimate
topics.
You: So do you have any pets?
Her: Yea, I actually have three of the cutest cats in the world.
You: Mmm…. So you are one of those women with cats, huh? (sly smile)
Her: Stop it.. haha… no I’m not one of those crazy cat women… I just love my cats.
You: They say people who like cats tend to me more independent than dog lovers….
As you can see, just by following up the question with a statement, you are able to
expand on the topic and bring a little fun and banter to the conversation.
In the Small Talk Tactics report I give more examples of what to say to girls.
2. Qualify her
Once a man senses any sort of rapport with a woman, he
immediately becomes scared shitless of breaking that rapport or
saying anything that will damage his chances of moving forward.
So he stays on “safe” topics. Unfortunately, this tends to work
counter-productive… and usually winds up boring a woman that
was previously interested.
Try this instead:
Once you sense that you’ve sparked a woman’s interest a little bit begin qualifying her
with questions or statements that place you in the role of “the selector.”
This means you will make a statement that may disqualify her as potential lover…
Let’s use the cat example from above to demonstrate:
You: So do you have any pets?
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Her: Yea, I have three of the cutest cats in the world.
You: mmmm… We would never get along. I’m a dog person, and what I’ve heard is that
dog and cat owners tend to have a really intense sexual connection… but disagree on
every other possible point.
As you can see, you took a “safe” topic like pets and were able to bring an element of
sexuality to the conversation. Not only that, but by making the statement “we would
never get along” you’re now placing the burden of approval seeking on her.
3. Use Cold Reads
As men, we love to talk about facts, events, and amusing surface level stories. While all
of these should make up a great deal of your conversations… they tend to limit you from
certain areas that really seem to ignite passion in a woman.
Women get their “fix” from talking about the mystical, or the deeper level. Women love
to delve into the emotional meaning behind the facts, events, or surface level stories.
If you never hint to a woman that you are capable of communicating on this different
wave length… you’re missing out on a great opportunity to separate yourself from other
men.
Try this instead:
Next time you’re talking to woman, try using a cold reading that will allow you to go
beneath the surface level, and get her to open up to some of her feelings.
A cold read is simply stating something you’ve noticed about her, and then making a
deeper observation about it.
Here is an example that you could use fairly soon into a conversation when she says
something about a previous date or guy she knew.
You: I can tell just by the way that you are talking there that you are the kind of girl who
goes on a lot of dates but has trouble finding someone you’re actually interested in.
Then when you find that person, you usually lose interest very quickly.
Her: Yea… that’s so true.
©2011 Bobby Rio –all rights reserved
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